I just attended my friend's daddy wake during evening time. My friend is so strong.. emotionally strong i mean. My buddy weeped when she reached the wake but my friend ended up consoling her. Oh gosh.. she stands strong because of her family. I'm so impressed by you girl..
I know that if i told you.. those things like, don't be sad, is all rubbish.. so i chose to say nothing. Attending a wake and saying those crap will only make one feels sadder. Someone dear has just passed away and people actually told the family not to be sad?! *laughs* Even saint can't do it.. i rather smile to you instead. =))) A smile can makes one feel more consoled.. and slightly a supporting stand in their emotions?
But well, girl.. we will be here for you. Feel free to cry like nobody business.. we do understand. You can hide whatever you don't wish to let us see.. but if one day when you can't hold on anymore, just let it out. Sometimes, crying can be a great way to relieve your sadness or stress.. temporary at least.
Mourning days should be accepted.. let's pray for your dad to be happy in heaven. God has brought him to heaven.. a place where he is released from his agony. You deserve to be happy. May god bless you and of course, i will pray for you.. to be happy always. You are facing this departure of your dear so bravely and i respect you for that.. of course, for the sake of your family is even a great thing.
Reality is harsh. Tomorrow shall be a more than ever hard day to pass. I know how you feel, just like what i've seen before during mourning days. It's gonna be so harsh and cruel.. which no words can use to explain that. What we can do for you is only spiritual support. The only thing we can give you..
You really made me strong.. physically and emotionally. And i learned to cherish my dears more than ever. =)))
My condolences~ Yours
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